About ianboy from London . . .


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It is No. 153 from Bartók's huge piano opus "Mikrokosmos" in a superb MIDI version by the talented transcriber David Siu.


Who am I ?

ianboy glam shot (117K) ianboy at work (44K) I'm a good-looking 35 who looks maybe 27 (on a good day . . .), 5'10" with short blonde hair and very blue eyes, an average non-muscular build and normally hairy. I'm a well-spoken, considerate, fairly normal gay guy, not signed up to a gay lifestyle and scene interests.

I'm looking for good friendships and relationships with interesting people. I seem to have a good rapport with young people, 16-25, so if you feel like chatting don't be scared to get in touch ! In general, if you're interested in conversation (a definite plus) not just action then interests in current affairs, classical music, film and wine would be better starting points than football/sport, chart music, pop culture and lager.

An amusing violinist cartoon by Ras (53K) I used to be a professional violinist (74K) I have good computer, numeracy, literacy and design skills (see Can I Help You ?) and I used to be a professional violinist, although my current career is not quite as artistically or emotionally rewarding ! I work nights at present as a minicab driver in London in the UK (here is a great poem I found about doing this, but not by me !) and I live 15 minutes walk from East Croydon station in Surrey.


Some of my interests

I love reading when I have the time, especially sci-fi and fantasy writing by Michael Moorcock, Anne Rice, Gene Wolfe, Ursula Le Guin, R.A. MacAvoy, Julian May, Isaac Asimov and Terry Pratchett - here are some interesting author fan-sites:


Multiverse.org Umbrella gateway for fan sites
related to Michael Moorcock's
fantasy literature



Sharon's Anne Rice Pages, Lorah's Anne Rice Links and Vampire's Haven

The Gene Wolfe Web Page by Geoff and The Urth List - Wolfe discussion forum


As far as my classical musical interests go, I especially enjoy 20th Century European orchestral music, and particularly Central/Eastern European, i.e. the music of Béla Bartók, Zoltán Kodály, Vítesjlav Novák, Karol Szymanowski, Dmitri Shostakovitch, Igor Stravinsky, Gustav Mahler and early Arnold Schoenberg. I also enjoy the ethnic gypsy and traditional music of Central Europe. Here are just a few links to some interesting classical musical sites:


The Classical Music Pages by Matt Boynick VIOLINK violin resource pages ANDANTE Classical Music resources

Sibelius Academy Music Resources Page
BUBL Music Theory links


Lots of downloadable MIDI files can be found at the Classical MIDI Archives and Classical MIDI Resource sites, but don't forget that they are very pale imitations of the real thing - SUPPORT PROFESSIONAL MUSIC-MAKING BY HEARING REAL MUSIC MADE LIVE IN CONCERT (preferably) or visit an online store for good recordings like Amazon.com. However, here are some absolutely excellent MIDI files to download of some of my most favourite composers and pieces of music:

Béla Bartók (1881-1945):
Finale from Concerto for Orchestra (David Siu - 253K)

Claude Debussy (1862-1918):
Jeux des Vagues from "La Mer" (Jun Nishio - 155K)

George Gershwin (1898-1937):
Rhapsody in Blue (composer's original solo version) (Gary D. Lloyd - 79K)

Paul Hindemith (1895-1963):
Engelkonzert (1st movement) from "Mathis der Maler" (David Siu - 117K)

Gustav Holst (1874-1934):
Neptune, the Mystic from "The Planets" Suite (David Siu - 132K)

Zoltán Kodály (1882-1967):
Dances of Galanta (Reinhold Behringer - 247K)

Igor Stravinsky (1882-1971):
Petrouchka (3 movements transcribed for piano by the composer) (David Siu - 117K)

Dmitri Shostakovich (1906-1975):
Cadenza and Burlesque (4th movement) from 1st Violin Concerto (David Siu - 129Kb)

This and much other "modern" Russian violin repertoire (by Prokofiev/Khatchaturian etc.) was dedicated to and written for my favourite violinist, David Fedorovich Oistrakh (1908-1974) - there is relatively little on the web about him, but for the violin connoisseur he was one of the last century's greatest instrumentalists and cultural ambassadors. I strongly recommend any and all of Oistrakh's recordings that you may find, especially of Twentieth Century Russian music - please search them out and enjoy !

You are also at liberty to identify with my (limited) leisure-time interest in any of the following: cult TV in a fantasy genre, especially Dr Who, The Avengers and Angel/Buffy The Vampire Slayer; films by Woody Allen, Monty Python, Terry Gilliam, Sergio Leone and Akira Kurosawa; classic jazz and 70's British Rock (especially Pink Floyd, The Bonzo Dog Doo-Dah Band, Genesis, Gryphon, ELO, Sky, etc.). Here is a small selection of links to fan-sites/official sites:


The Avengers fan site group
The official BBC Online Dr Who site
The Buffy Cross & Stake
Gryphon fan-site
Bonzo Dog Doo-Dah Band fan-site Electric Light Orchestra fan-site Sky fan-site



What I like to do and who I want to meet . . .

Trussed and Spanked, cartoon by Franco

To read about my formative years and some of my past CP encounters go to the page on my thoughts and experiences, which will give you a very good idea of what I've done, what I've found that I like and where I've occasionally gone wrong and how I think and react. I'm looking to meet or chat with other sane, open-minded people to continue exploring most aspects of discipline. I'm really easy-going so if you're inexperienced or nervous about meeting you can expect a safe and caring introduction. In fact, I'm happy to discuss and advise on all aspects of CP by email if you're merely curious or not ready for direct contact.

I'm a switch personality - mostly I want to be dominant with someone younger but I also enjoy being submissive with the right partner (same age or older ?). My main interest is light to medium CP (spanking and cane/paddle/strap/tawse), possibly enhanced with some light to medium bondage (wrist and ankle cuffs or ropes) and mild SM (eg. nipple torture). I respect others' limits absolutely but I am happy to expand them with trust and consent. I do have a good pain threshold, though, and I anticipate that in an ongoing sub relationship I would probably want to stretch my own limits to quite hard CP. Leather master/slave, teacher/pupil, father/son or other roleplaying is NOT really my thing, and the same applies to serious dressing-up in school clothes and other uniforms.

I'm definitely NOT interested in cross-dressing, fisting, blood, scat or watersports, pain without limits or in total control, but I AM into variety of touch and sensation and maximising pleasure, including all necessary relief from the delicious tension that the tingle of a good spanking invariably creates . . . Simply put, if you fantasize about being stripped, maybe tied up and then slowly, sexily getting a nice red bottom, hot and sore, then you won't be disappointed ! If that's what you'd like to do to me then that's even better !! If you're game to have some pictures taken or perhaps to take some of me then that would be great fun too. See my photo gallery page for some ideas !

I expect that any meeting would be for no-strings fun, but I am really looking for longer-lasting friendships and I'd like to settle into a (strict ?) relationship with the right guy if he's out there. If you want me to play the older to your naughty younger brother etc. then ideally you'll be a fairly slim normal guy, 16-35, with a reasonable sense of humour. If you're older and fancy playing uncle or dad to me then I'd prefer someone under 55, patient yet firm (but tough !) rather than merely strict. Obviously the nearer you are to me (UK, Croydon/London) then the more likely it is to work out.

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